Saturday, June 4, 2011

Siblings With and Without Rivalry

The sound of laughter and games organized imagination in the living room as my children with pillows, bars and Lego and play at all times, changing worlds of the future or the past. I love the sound and feeling of peace and satisfaction that brings.

Oops! The voices are always fast and ever more intrusive and more .... yes, we have a full blown argument, complete with feelings of sadness and tears and a brother and press room.

Another way of peace ... waiver "Here we go again" feeling at home ... It seems that the overwhelming feelings for adults and children ... everywhere.

Brothers and sisters! Depending on the situation, he mocked (younger brother) and attempted to get harassed (sister) to get goat. Despite the controls, and emphasizes the growing need to define the limits of the boundaries to combine, they want to play inside. Sometimes the roles are reversed. If you feel like you're best friends and total cases, with very little between the two seems.

I know others feel my pain. We all have a "honeymoon" time with our children ... and moments where we feel our parents' personal depth. It's a great book, "The Brothers without rivalry (Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish), I turn to on a regular basis. This is a short read that a great brightness and fraternal relationship specific suggestions on what to say and do in a variety. The proposals are also situations in a "cartoon" for those of us attention and time to be interviewed, the proposals do not work One of the main suggestions I've found. (if I remember to use them! ): "I know it can work" and then pull out all the fear that our pets to visit. with his fists, but I found (with the help of the book) that children as possible is nice, but strong, is often best I can do.

The argument, which is especially likely for one of his "side" is still pretty fast, "boring" and start talking and laughing, and the development of ... (Surprisingly, without my help) and move on. Even parked the car on the road. out of the car and leave the screaming and talking. Back to the hugs and even a few tears. Brothers and sisters of the planet to another (maybe we can learn from our friends and partners) to learn.

Speaking to the brothers and sisters who work let alone that we (the family) a very funny movie streaming Netflix, Bug Off! The film is a look at the top of both siblings and strangers in a completely unexpected and need to leave and also a change of heart and has the same problem ... Fun for adults and children, and even good as a reference point for discussion.

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